Is it normal for a partner to change into the man you have always wanted in just a few days?

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My narc partner has almost instantly became the man I’ve always wanted in just a few days after we’ve been married for ten years. Is this possible? 

I wouldn’t trust change like this to happen in just a few days from anyone, but especially from a narcissist, abusive or toxic partner. They mirror what you want so they can pull you back into the relationship and gain control. He likely believes you may leave and he’s losing control so they turn on the charm and exploit your love for them. It won’t take long before their old ways appear again. Definitely a red flag.


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