How to deal with mom who doesn’t love and a me family treat me like shit?

It’s definitely hard to answer this one, but from personal experience and helping others, you might have to go through the grieving process and accepting who they are, and making changes so that you can live a healthy life. This may be strong boundaries and limited contact or no contact at all if they don’t respect your boundaries or you feel are toxic to you. I would put my healing as a priority in my life and look into reparenting yourself. You deserve much better in your life and deserve to have people that celebrate and love you surrounding you.

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